DEAR DEIDRE: THOUGH I am madly in love with my girlfriend and our sex life is great, I can’t hit the G-spot.
We’re both 25 and have been together for two years. We want a family soon but for now we want to make the most of an uninterrupted sex life and tick all the boxes we can. We love trying out new positions and toys in bed.
Clitoral orgasms aren’t an issue but I’ve failed to give her a G-spot orgasm. She says it’s OK and it’s just her. But I feel at least partly to blame.
DEIDRE SAYS: If you are just ticking boxes, you are turning sex into a test – which can lead to problems.
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Some women find the G-spot a massive turn-on. And some women don’t.
There is no question of blame. There are plenty of other ways to give women pleasure, so maybe it is time to move on.
Read my e-leaflet about Understanding The G-Spot, which explains more.
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