DEAR DEIDRE: I AM a well-built man of 25.
I am tall, in good shape and of athletic build. I dress smartly and would say women find me attractive. I get noticed.
I love the attention but it seems these women all expect me to have a large penis.
But I am slightly below average in that department, especially when not aroused.
It doesn’t seem to match the rest of me.
I don’t have a huge ego. I am friendly and appear confident, but it seems my body leads women to believe I have something special to offer.
I can see it in their eyes.
Men joke that I must have a monster based on the way I carry myself.
I don’t know how to counteract the inevitable disappointment women must feel when they find out.
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DEIDRE SAYS: I am sure you have heard or read people say that it is not what you’ve got but what you do that counts.
That is true. You can be a fantastic lover and give a woman immense pleasure, whatever size your equipment is. Inches are not the issue.
Ignore guys’ remarks about having a “monster”. They are just showing their own insecurities.
In the meantime, you can find further encouragement and get the confidence you lack from my Manhood Too Small? e-leaflet.
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